People do not perceive you the same way that you perceive yourself. You know your backstory, mistakes, embarrassments, and all the weird and gross stuff. But almost everyone who sees you has no idea about any of those things. They only know you as the person in front of them in this very moment. They see your style, your confidence, your energy. They see who you are and what you portray. That is such a relief; every day is a blank canvas for you to try again and show people who you really want to be.
This is a portrayal of someone who is totally in tune with themselves; they exude their authentic selves, and it is beautiful!